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“The Truth About Anal”

Always a touchy subject with women. Either you like it or you don’t. You tried once, but it hurt too much/he’s too big/you weren’t drunk enough… I get it. I mean, personally, I don’t, but it’s understandable.

When I consult women at my Passion Parties, I get asked a lot about anal. I’m always asked for tips on what they should do/ how they should approach it, because they really want to try it with their partner. I usually give four main tips: DRINK; LUBE; PREP; RELAX!

Since I’m determined to have all women enjoy this awesome sexual experience, I’m always looking for articles that talk about how to prepare for such an event. I found one that may help all you Nervous Nancy’s.

The only thing I’d add to this article: Make sure you’ve had a few shots off something that always loosens you up. 😉

The Truth About Anal *

Enjoy!

– Dirty Diva

*Source – wewomen.com

Gigi; Your New Best Friend.

This post is dedicated to all the men out there. There are so many toys that are made and advertised for a woman’s pleasure that I felt like the men were being forgotten!Tonight I concentrate on Gigi. She’s who I call every man’s best friend. She’s also who I believe is the only other vagina monogamous females will allow in their relationship. Yes, Gigi is the Pocket Pussy.

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GiGi

If I had a penis, I would DEFINITELY own a pocket pussy. She works so many ways, I don’t understand why every guy I know DOESN’T have one! She has multiple uses, and is so easy to take care of! Below are the many ways you can fuck her:

1. The Ménage a Trois Gigi isn’t just for his solo fun, but can be used during oral stimulation by you. First start by lubricating Gigi and his shaft with a small amount of a flavored lubricant like Embrace® Sensual Lubricant. Next, slowly slide the jellylike Gigi sleeve onto his erect penis, so that it completely rests against the base of his shaft, leaving the head exposed. As he gets closer to reaching climax, keep this in mind – Gigi can also “swallow” for you. Right before your partner climaxes, ensure that the head is completely engulfed by Gigi so that he gets every last bit of necessary stimulation.

2. Gigi: Your Personal Bumper Guard Another option is to use the Gigi sleeve as a buffer during vaginal or anal intercourse. Simply cut Gigi to a desirable “buffer” size. For example, if your partner’s penis is ten inches long from the base to the tip and you’re only comfortable accommodating seven inches, cut Gigi into a 3” portion. Next, apply Revelation™ Lubricant or Slip ‘n Slide. Then, slide the mini-Gigi over his shaft so it rests at the base of his penis. You can then have sex as you normally would, and Gigi prevents the additional length of his penis from entering your vagina or anus. If a condom is worn, Gigi goes on after the condom. With this method, you can relax knowing he’s not penetrating too deeply and he still gets the full coverage experience.

3. The Other Side of Gigi Gigi is a great toy that can be used to simulate anal sex and it’s an experience both of you can share together. Gigi is very flexible and can be completely reversed. When in this inside-out state, the opening on the opposite end is actually smaller and tighter, just like an anus. Make sure the inside, opening and his penis are well-lubricated, insert his shaft into the reversed Gigi and enjoy simulated anal sex.

Source: Passion Parties

As if Gigi couldn’t even get any better, there are different versions of her!

She Glows!

This Gigi glows in the dark!

She can vibrate!

She can vibrate!

Kiki

For the even THICKER man.. ;-)

Mimi

For the bigger man.. there’s Gigi’s cousin, Mimi

What are you waiting for? Purchase a Gigi for yourself or your loved one today!!!

– Dirty Diva

The Big O.

I recently re-enrolled in becoming a consultant for Passion Parties. For over a year, I had the pleasure of getting a bunch of horny, sex driven people together to talk about sex and sell some sex toys. It was the funnest, most raunchiest (if there is such a word)  time of my life (when I wasn’t actually having sex, that is).

I logged on to my site to search around and catch myself up on what I’ve missed, and came across a very interesting post about a woman’s orgasm. It was an almost instant reminder that
while I doing these #passionparties, I realized that a lot of people really weren’t aware that there is a difference between cumming and having an orgasm. I also noticed that not a lot of women have actually had an orgasm- which is NOT OKAY!!! For that reason: Please read the little post below to help you lovely ladies reach The Big O:

“Ahhh… the orgasm!

Who doesn’t love the toe curling, body convulsing, extreme ecstasy of an intense climax?

Unfortunately, female orgasms can be hard to come by.  But ladies, don’t despair. First of all, if you do have a hard time climaxing, know that you are not alone. According to Planned Parenthood, one in three women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex, and as many as 80% of women have difficulty climaxing from vaginal intercourse alone. Those are staggering statistics. Especially considering that 90% of men orgasm every time they have vaginal intercourse.

Second of all, just because you may have a hard time reaching orgasm while making love doesn’t mean you’ll have a hard time reaching orgasm in all situations.

Just like women come in all different shapes, sizes and colors, so too, do their sexual desires, turn-ons and hot spots. While some women are able to orgasm solely from intercourse, many others need clitoral stimulation to reach the “Big O.” Some women need other stimulants, like touching and kissing. Others are able to climax when vibrators are introduced and used during lovemaking. It’s impossible to list all the different scenarios for women to reach orgasm, but here are three ideas our Passion Parties experts recommend:

  • Relax. For many women, orgasms are hard to reach because they cannot let go. It’s not a secret that women are often stereotyped as over-analyzers, and if you’ve ever been accused of this, take note: Over-analyzing can inhibit your ability to climax. If you are too busy thinking about what you look like or how long it’s taking, you are creating a mental roadblock on your journey to the Big O.

Start the night with a glass of wine, chamomile tea or whatever yummy beverage helps you to relax. Once you and your mate are playing, if a negative or worrisome thought creeps in your mind, shake it off and focus on something you really like in the moment. Maybe you like the way your partner’s tongue feels against your smooth skin, maybe you like your lover’s hot breath on your inner thigh, or maybe you’re enjoying the feeling of fullness as you’re penetrated. Focus your thoughts and energy on that, and get lost in it.

  • Get on top. There are certain sex positions that give more control to your partner (think missionary and doggie-style), and there are certain positions that give more control to you, such as being on top. When you’re on top, you’ll be able to control the angle, depth, speed and thrust intensity. Additional bonus: If you want clitoral stimulation, you are in the perfect position.
  • Teach by example. Your orgasm might simply be thwarted due to your partner not knowing what you want or like. If this is the case, there is an easy and sexy solution: Show your mate what you like. Using your fingers or a toy, show your lover exactly how you like it — how fast, how deep, how intense. After you’ve shown by example, ask your partner to put his or her fingers on top of yours or around yours (if using a toy) so your playmate can not only see how you like it, but he or she can also feel and eventually master what you like.

Finding your orgasm might take time and patience, and while that can be frustrating, try to remember you’re not alone… and only practice makes perfect.”

Get To Work Ladies!!

Source: Partners Mag

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